Saturday, December 13, 2008

What do you do with your Dreams you have for your life?

How can you achieve your Dreams for your life......

1. Focus on them,
2. dream about them,
3. talk about them,
4. breathe dreams...

ignore those who say...

"Yea, right."  or
Those who can give you a thousand reasons why your dreams will never come true.
Don't let others destroy your believe just because they don't have any dreams or because they have no believe.

You have what it takes to make all your dreams come true and to live a life that most people only dream of.  It starts with believe in yourself!  Don't let dream stealers rob you of a life beyond any ones imagination!  Just believe..............
and you'll be able to use the Law of Attraction to bring your dreams closer to you!

Color your life with the colors of the rainbow by only allowing people into your life that will support you in your dreams and that will believe in you.

Marinda van der Brugghen

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

I Believe!


I BELIEVE 

A Birth Certificate shows that we were born 
 
A Death Certificate shows that we died 

Pictures show that we lived! 

Have a seat . .. . Relax . . . And read this slowly. 
 
I Believe... 

That just because two people argue,
It doesn't mean they don't love each other. 
And just because they don't argue, 
It doesn't mean they do love each other. 
  
I Believe...
That we don't have to change friends if  We understand that friends change.   

I Believe...
That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. (relatives too) 
 
I Believe....
That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.  Same goes for true love.  
I Believe... 
That you can do something in an instant That will give you heartache for life.  
 
I Believe...
That it's taking me a long time To become the person I want to be.  

I Believe...
That you should always leave loved ones with loving words.It may be the last time you see them.   
I Believe... 
That you can keep going long after you think you can't.  
 
I Believe...
That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. 
  
I Believe...
That either you control your attitude or it controls you. 
  
I Believe...
That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. 
  
I Believe...
That money is a lousy way of keeping score. (and that's the absolute truth.)  

I Believe...
That my best friend and I, can do anything, or nothing and have the best time. 
 
I Believe...
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up. 
  
I Believe...
That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. 
  
I Believe...
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.   

I Believe...
That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.  
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself. (The most diffucult task you can do.) 

I Believe...
That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief. 
 
I Believe...
That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but, we are responsible for who we become. 
  
I Believe...
That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life Forever.  
 
 I Believe...
Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. 
  
I Believe...
That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.  
 
I Believe...
That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.
   
I Believe...
That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.  
 
I Believe...
That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon..  
 
I Believe...   
'The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything they have. 

This amazing piece was send to me by a friend and I wanted to share it with you!

Marinda van der Brugghen
 

 

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Can you sleep while the wind blows?

 

Years ago, a farmer owned land along the Atlantic seacoast. 

He constantly advertised for hired hands. Most people were reluctant to work on farms along the Atlantic. They dreaded the awful storms that raged across the Atlantic, wreaking havoc on the buildings and crops. 

As the farmer interviewed applicants for the job, he received

A steady stream of refusals.

Finally, a short, thin man, well past middle age, approached the farmer. "Are you a good farm hand?" the farmer asked him. 

"Well, I can sleep when the wind blows," answered the little man.

Although puzzled by this answer, the farmer, desperate for help, Hired him. The little man worked well around the farm, busy from dawn to dusk,  and the farmer felt satisfied with the man's work. 

Then one night the wind howled loudly in from offshore. 

Jumping out of bed, the farmer grabbed a lantern and rushed next door to the hired hand's sleeping quarters. He shook the little man and yelled, "Get up!  A storm is coming! Tie things down before they blow away!" 

The little man rolled over in bed and said firmly, "No sir. I told you, I can sleep when the wind blows."

Enraged by the response, the farmer was tempted to fire him on the spot. Instead, he hurried outside to prepare for the storm. 

To his amazement, he discovered that all of the haystacks had been covered with tarpaulins. The cows were in the barn, the chickens were in the coops, and the doors were barred. The shutters were tightly secured.  Everything was tied down. 


Nothing could blow away. The farmer then understood what his hired hand meant, so he returned to his bed to also sleep while the wind blew.

When you're prepared, spiritually, mentally, and physically, you have nothing to fear. Can you sleep when the wind blows through your life? 

The hired hand in the story was able to sleep because he had secured the farm against the storm. 

We secure ourselves against the storms of life by surounding ourselves in the Word of God. We don't need to understand, we just need to hold His hand to have peace in the middle of storms. 


A friend of mine sent this to me today, and I enjoyed it so much, that I wanted to share it here on my blog. It was just what I needed today after getting some disturbing news yesterday. 

I hope you enjoy your day and you sleep well.

Marinda van der Brugghen

 


 

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Living a life of fun

As parents and adults we so often get caught up in this world of 'grown up' business that we sometimes forget how to have pure child like fun.  The kind of fun that comes from a state of pure being not the kind of fun that comes from doing a specific kind of activity or having to want to be in a specific mood for fun....  No, it is the kind of fun you see in small children who are so busy being fully present in their lives and their bodies that the glow of fun just radiates from them just because they are alive.  When you look at a child  and you see the delight that flashes across his/her eyes when they discover that they can catch a ball or that jumping on moms couch is soooo much fun. That look of amazement in their eyes with the weird expression on their faces when they discover that water comes out of the tap when they turn the knob.....the squeals you here when they run and jump through the water sprayer on the lawn.....watching them watch the same hat or scarf trick for the 12th time and still finding it so amazing and showing their amazement and fun by rendering the most infectious laughter where you actually can't help but chuckling along.

When we are children we experience  everything with pure delight.  We experience it with a mindset of living in the moment, enjoying it and finding the fun in every and each situation.  You do not need to dress up and spend lots of money to have fun but somehow as adults we forget how much fun the simple things actually can be......  We need to remember and reconnect with that part of ourselves that knows how to have fun in every thing we do.  We need to take ourselves back in time and remember the things we use to love when we were children.  We need to find that inner child that we locked away somewhere inside and give it its voice again. Think back at the things that use to make you giggle and laugh with delight or the things that made you burst out into endless laughter where it was difficult to sit up or stand up straight because your whole body was partaking in this moment of fantastic joy and fun fulfillment.  That feeling of pure fun lives in you, you just have to realize that you have to call it back into your life and then never let go of it again

When we live in the moment and for the moment pure fun happens because we are fully engaged with ourselves and our surroundings.  Do you remember that natural, organic real pleasure that use to jump out from your belly engaging your whole body with enjoyment where it feels like your mouth is pulling apart at the seams and your toes want to jiggle with joy?  Do you remember that warm feeling in your soul after a outbreak of laughter were you feel that you are the king of the world?  That feeling of pure pleasure......  We need to understand and realize that pure fun is not just something that is given to us, it is something we allow for ourselves to experience by living in the moment.  We have to find the fun in everything around us and open up this glorious thing called FUN like a child at Christmas with his/her gifts under the tree......ripping of the bows of our own mind restraints that are choking fun out of our lives and tearing apart the wrapping paper we have put around it  because we can not and will not wait any longer to have it in our lives again.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Acting Aloof at times


You may feel introverted while in a crowd, which can lead you to act aloof. Even if you seem to be socializing outwardly, you could feel detached and shy inside. This can feel like a mismatch, but from this seeming contradiction can come new and interesting insights. You may be able to observe and take in what occurs on another level by being slightly removed from everyone else. You could filter your interactions by keeping all away except those energetically drawn to you. You may even discover that you can affect the energy of the space by focusing your light to bring peace to brewing conflict, comfort to sadness, or lightheartedness to misunderstanding. 

If you watch closely, you may see these people associating with those who are not an energetic match and who drain their energy or create conflict.
 By remaining detached, you have the chance to observe people for a time before engaging them. Even though you may not be conscious of it, you are energetically feeling them out, looking for someone with whom you can invest your energy wisely. By hanging back before entering the fray you will safe yourself from people who just want to drain you from your energy.

We all want to make friends but we have to choose wisely as there are so many people out there that will just drain you from your energy.  By choosing wisely you have to choose friends with the same outlook.  A mastermind group working together for the good of each member.....Now does that not sound GREAT!  People that won't drain you from energy but will fill you when you are empty.....THINK ABOUT THAT!
Are you looking for friends that are growing their businesses and giving to each other freely?
Want to get yourself motivated and passionate about your business again?  Focused and ready to achieve your dreams?!
El FREEBO!
You deserve it!  Once you plugged in get into touch with me so we can give each other the positive energy we deserve to build our businesses with ease.

Marinda van der Brugghen
630-340-5165

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Mentoring For Free.....Why?

Are you in a Network Marketing business?
Would you say you are successful or NOT?
Are you still buying leads?
Do you feel like a failure?

Well, I found Mentoring for Free when I was struggling and frustrated and feeling like a total failure.  After spending thousands of dollars on a home based business (MLM) that made me no money  I wanted to know why...... I needed some answers. I needed to understand why it was that I could be so successful in business in real life but not in Network Marketing! And as luck would have it I found Mentoring For Free!  

After plugging in to all the F*ree training I soon discovered that The Online Business Systems got me to spend Thousands of dollars on useless leads!  In fact I discovered that buying leads are the stupidest thing you can do in Network Marketing.  I also learned by studying my policies and procedures and compensation plan why I was not having the success I was told I would have.  

I learned about the 5 pillars a company needs to ensure you do succeed and how the business model drives the behaviour in the field.

Things started making sense and 2+2 started adding up to 4 and I started feeling some relief knowing my lack of success was not my fault.  I discovered why so many people become victims in MLM instead of successful business owners.  We get involved in this business without arming ourselves first with the right information and ensuring that we read and understand our policies and procedures.  But......THEY make it sound so easy.......yeah......it can be easy and you can succeed but THEY will never give you the truth of what you need to know and do to succeed.

Mentoring For Free gave me back the peace in my life!  I got my confidence back! I got back the energy and focus and just happiness that I lost because of feeling like a looser!

No one can force you or make you understand how important it is to arm yourself with the right information before just jumping into a MLM.  I can only tell you that if you truly want to succeed then you need to learn what is crucial for you to know and understand and do so you can have the success and Freedom this industry can give you and your family.  Too many people are being hurt and loose their money.....It needs to Stop!

Marinda van der Brugghen

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Systems Are Duplicable, But People Are Not!

This is the funny part of Network Marketing! Most people try to duplicate the one thing that is not duplicable.......THEIR SPONSOR.

Most people want to be just like their sponsor or the "guru" of their company or their idle in the industry and they invariably fail! Too much importance is being placed on wanting to be just like someone else or doing things just like someone else is doing or did it when the actuality of it all is that they should be duplicating the system.

The system never fails and that is what you should focus on and ensure that it is a REAL DUPLICABLE SYSTEM! With a REAL DUPLICABLE SYSTEM you can become a professional pointer....pointing people to where they can find all the answers and help to succeed
You can not sit for hours and hours teaching people all their is to know but if the system is set up correctly you can alleviate this problem.

A big mistake most people make in this business is getting depressed when their down line doesn't duplicate their actions to the level they expect. FREE yourself from these emotions! It is NOT your fault! You can only guide, mentor and coach people that want to learn. Through guidance and coaching and mentoring you send them to the places where they can find most of the answers......Now it is up to them to find the answers. I am not telling you to leave them in the cold. All I am saying is that you can not baby sit them and teach them everything and you most definitely can not build their business for them.

So understand clearly that - NETWORK MARKETING IS A BUSINESS BUILT ON DUPLICATION, BUT YOU ARE NOT DUPLICABLE! Ensure that you have a duplicable system where you can point people in the right direction. A system where people work together for the greater good of everyone so that all can have success. I have found such a system with all the criteria required to help you succeed in your Network Marketing business.

Instructions for Network Marketing

Network Marketing is such a fantastic industry but its reputation is so damaged.
Why?........Well because people try and sell you their opportunity around every corner, doesn't that just irritate you. Then once they have you on board.....well all the promises they made you flies out the window.
Watch the short video on what I call - "Instructions for Network Marketing".

Enjoy!
Marinda van der Brugghen







Monday, September 29, 2008

The Bad Economy and Home Business Opportunities


It is always a case that when the economy presents financial challenges - more people look to supplement their income by starting their own home based business! Even Donald Trump and Robert Kiyosaki recommend it and they particularly recommend Direct Sales MLM opportunities or Network Marketing. It cost much less to set up a home based business than a traditional business and that is why it is such a popular way to start a business. It also is a fast way to generate additional income.

Although Network Marketing is so popular very few people really know what to look out for before joining a company. People get sucked into the hype that gets created about the vast amounts of money that they will be earning. The people selling the opportunity reads from a well formulated scrip that does not give you the truth just enough information to get you jumping head first into something that is just going to take your hard earned money!

It is only once you have joined and paid your $500.00 or what ever there initial amount is that you then hear of additional costs. Some want you to have a merchant account, and then they want you to pay for a website and so on and so on........... When you sit and start adding it up, now you are paying much more than initially told. Instead of realizing that they have not been giving you the truth you just do as told because......hey......they told you that you were going to make money. Then you buy the leads they tell you to buy or the flyer's they tell you to distribute or the books for self development or....or....or....and you just keep spending money. It is only 2-4 months later after spending lots of $ that you realize that maybe......just maybe you have been sold a Dud! But you question yourself and think......."Can't be because my up line is making money"! WRONG.....experience shows that most of them proclaiming to be making $ are just faking it until they make it because that is what their up line is doing. You see, when people are struggling, there are others who will prey on the desperate situations caused by the economy and what you think is going to create the additional income is actually what is going to hurt you even more financially!

More and more people are , or will be looking for ways to supplement their income. Looking for a home business opportunity. Cheap gas is a thing of the past, unemployment is increasing, mortgage foreclosures are sky rocketing and people need extra cash.

This is the time to educate yourself to ensure that you understand all the elements in Network Marketing so that you can have the success you deserve. You need to be able to understand compensation plans! This is so crucial for you to achieve success. You need to have a duplicatable system that all your down line can plug into. You need to be part of a 5 pillar company.......I can't stress this enough......YOU NEED TO BE PART OF A 5 PILLAR COMPANY! You don't want to be part of a company that wants you to have a merchant account! You don't want to be part of a company that wants you to buy leads! I can carry on and on of what you need and what you don't need to succeed in Network Marketing.

SO......moral of the story.....EDUCATE YOURSELF!

How and where can you do that?
Well you need to find a group of people that will do this for you without any agenda and without you having to pay a cent for it. I REPEAT MYSELF.........PEOPLE WITHOUT AN AGENDA AND WHERE YOU DO NOT HAVE TO PAY A CENT TO GET THE EDUCATION!

Are you ready to succeed? Then learn the right skills! Don't just do what you get told, educate yourself!