Living a life of fun

As parents and adults we so often get caught up in this world of 'grown up' business that we sometimes forget how to have pure child like fun.  The kind of fun that comes from a state of pure being not the kind of fun that comes from doing a specific kind of activity or having to want to be in a specific mood for fun....  No, it is the kind of fun you see in small children who are so busy being fully present in their lives and their bodies that the glow of fun just radiates from them just because they are alive.  When you look at a child  and you see the delight that flashes across his/her eyes when they discover that they can catch a ball or that jumping on moms couch is soooo much fun. That look of amazement in their eyes with the weird expression on their faces when they discover that water comes out of the tap when they turn the knob.....the squeals you here when they run and jump through the water sprayer on the lawn.....watching them watch the same hat or scarf trick for the 12th time and still finding it so amazing and showing their amazement and fun by rendering the most infectious laughter where you actually can't help but chuckling along.

When we are children we experience  everything with pure delight.  We experience it with a mindset of living in the moment, enjoying it and finding the fun in every and each situation.  You do not need to dress up and spend lots of money to have fun but somehow as adults we forget how much fun the simple things actually can be......  We need to remember and reconnect with that part of ourselves that knows how to have fun in every thing we do.  We need to take ourselves back in time and remember the things we use to love when we were children.  We need to find that inner child that we locked away somewhere inside and give it its voice again. Think back at the things that use to make you giggle and laugh with delight or the things that made you burst out into endless laughter where it was difficult to sit up or stand up straight because your whole body was partaking in this moment of fantastic joy and fun fulfillment.  That feeling of pure fun lives in you, you just have to realize that you have to call it back into your life and then never let go of it again

When we live in the moment and for the moment pure fun happens because we are fully engaged with ourselves and our surroundings.  Do you remember that natural, organic real pleasure that use to jump out from your belly engaging your whole body with enjoyment where it feels like your mouth is pulling apart at the seams and your toes want to jiggle with joy?  Do you remember that warm feeling in your soul after a outbreak of laughter were you feel that you are the king of the world?  That feeling of pure pleasure......  We need to understand and realize that pure fun is not just something that is given to us, it is something we allow for ourselves to experience by living in the moment.  We have to find the fun in everything around us and open up this glorious thing called FUN like a child at Christmas with his/her gifts under the tree......ripping of the bows of our own mind restraints that are choking fun out of our lives and tearing apart the wrapping paper we have put around it  because we can not and will not wait any longer to have it in our lives again.

Acting Aloof at times

You may feel introverted while in a crowd, which can lead you to act aloof. Even if you seem to be socializing outwardly, you could feel detached and shy inside. This can feel like a mismatch, but from this seeming contradiction can come new and interesting insights. You may be able to observe and take in what occurs on another level by being slightly removed from everyone else. You could filter your interactions by keeping all away except those energetically drawn to you. You may even discover that you can affect the energy of the space by focusing your light to bring peace to brewing conflict, comfort to sadness, or lightheartedness to misunderstanding. 

If you watch closely, you may see these people associating with those who are not an energetic match and who drain their energy or create conflict.

 By remaining detached, you have the chance to observe people for a time before engaging them. Even though you may not be conscious of it, you are energetically feeling them out, looking for someone with whom you can invest your energy wisely. By hanging back before entering the fray you will safe yourself from people who just want to drain you from your energy.

We all want to make friends but we have to choose wisely as there are so many people out there that will just drain you from your energy.  By choosing wisely you have to choose friends with the same outlook.  A mastermind group working together for the good of each member.....Now does that not sound GREAT!  People that won't drain you from energy but will fill you when you are empty.....THINK ABOUT THAT!

Are you looking for friends that are growing their businesses and giving to each other freely?

Want to get yourself motivated and passionate about your business again?  Focused and ready to achieve your dreams?!

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Marinda van der Brugghen

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Mentoring For Free.....Why?

Are you in a Network Marketing business?

Would you say you are successful or NOT?

Are you still buying leads?

Do you feel like a failure?

Well, I found Mentoring for Free when I was struggling and frustrated and feeling like a total failure.  After spending thousands of dollars on a home based business (MLM) that made me no money  I wanted to know why...... I needed some answers. I needed to understand why it was that I could be so successful in business in real life but not in Network Marketing! And as luck would have it I found Mentoring For Free!  

After plugging in to all the F*ree training I soon discovered that The Online Business Systems got me to spend Thousands of dollars on useless leads!  In fact I discovered that buying leads are the stupidest thing you can do in Network Marketing.  I also learned by studying my policies and procedures and compensation plan why I was not having the success I was told I would have.  

I learned about the 5 pillars a company needs to ensure you do succeed and how the business model drives the behaviour in the field.

Things started making sense and 2+2 started adding up to 4 and I started feeling some relief knowing my lack of success was not my fault.  I discovered why so many people become victims in MLM instead of successful business owners.  We get involved in this business without arming ourselves first with the right information and ensuring that we read and understand our policies and procedures.  But......THEY make it sound so easy.......yeah......it can be easy and you can succeed but THEY will never give you the truth of what you need to know and do to succeed.

Mentoring For Free gave me back the peace in my life!  I got my confidence back! I got back the energy and focus and just happiness that I lost because of feeling like a looser!

No one can force you or make you understand how important it is to arm yourself with the right information before just jumping into a MLM.  I can only tell you that if you truly want to succeed then you need to learn what is crucial for you to know and understand and do so you can have the success and Freedom this industry can give you and your family.  Too many people are being hurt and loose their money.....It needs to Stop!

Marinda van der Brugghen