Sunday, November 9, 2008

Acting Aloof at times


You may feel introverted while in a crowd, which can lead you to act aloof. Even if you seem to be socializing outwardly, you could feel detached and shy inside. This can feel like a mismatch, but from this seeming contradiction can come new and interesting insights. You may be able to observe and take in what occurs on another level by being slightly removed from everyone else. You could filter your interactions by keeping all away except those energetically drawn to you. You may even discover that you can affect the energy of the space by focusing your light to bring peace to brewing conflict, comfort to sadness, or lightheartedness to misunderstanding. 

If you watch closely, you may see these people associating with those who are not an energetic match and who drain their energy or create conflict.
 By remaining detached, you have the chance to observe people for a time before engaging them. Even though you may not be conscious of it, you are energetically feeling them out, looking for someone with whom you can invest your energy wisely. By hanging back before entering the fray you will safe yourself from people who just want to drain you from your energy.

We all want to make friends but we have to choose wisely as there are so many people out there that will just drain you from your energy.  By choosing wisely you have to choose friends with the same outlook.  A mastermind group working together for the good of each member.....Now does that not sound GREAT!  People that won't drain you from energy but will fill you when you are empty.....THINK ABOUT THAT!
Are you looking for friends that are growing their businesses and giving to each other freely?
Want to get yourself motivated and passionate about your business again?  Focused and ready to achieve your dreams?!
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You deserve it!  Once you plugged in get into touch with me so we can give each other the positive energy we deserve to build our businesses with ease.

Marinda van der Brugghen
630-340-5165

4 comments:

not me said...

Hello Marinda
As an introvert I have to agree with you. Great post thanks for sharing
Bernard Tritz

Unknown said...

It is incredible to be around positive energy. The 30 day mental cleanse and mastermind group is is a great place to hang out. I was amazed what I learned about myself.
Wendy Krick

angela b. said...

OK...so I will be honest in telling you that Iread this blog on the PERFECT day. I think you must have heard my call out into the universe. The Mental Cleanse is one of the most challenging thing I have ever done....but the rewards from it have been some of the greatest I have ever received.
I agree....do NOT let other peoples negative energy affect your positive energy. I can say Marinda, I have not met you yet...but I can feel your positive energy come through every time we intereact through blogs or facebook. Thank you for that. GREAT blog!

Julie McClelland said...

Hi Marinda
Wow you have really touched on a nerve there, well written. I'm at that same place, being firm with those that generate that negativity I don't like, engaging those that share the same energy as myself.
It also comes from within too - we are what we portray! Great blog
Cheers
Julie :-)